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Unfold in the Moment

A small quest generator for when you have a little capacity and no idea what to do with it. Pull one prompt, follow it as far as it feels right, stop whenever you like.

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Mark, Play & Notice

Five gentle ways to settle a busy nervous system.

  • Doodle
  • Breathe
  • Drift
  • Catch the Leaves
  • Sensory Options
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    Unfold

    An interactive book in eight chapters, for listening to the body in your own company.

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    Why Am I So Exhausted

    An interactive guide to neurodivergent burnout, naming what's happening in the body and what tends to help it shift.

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    Two Tired People

    A companion guide to burnout within relationships, naming what's happening between two exhausted people and what tends to help you find each other again.

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    Capacity Field

    Plot where your nervous system sits right now, and start noticing what moves you outside your window.

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    Cycle Capacity Tracker

    For AFAB women tracking capacity against a menstrual or hormonal cycle, so recovery is measured against the pattern, not just function.

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    Tonight I'm Into

    A consent and intimacy check-in for couples, for naming where each of you is at before you connect.

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    The Wildwood Within

    A plain language guide to parts work, with a map you can draw for yourself, naming your protective, reactive and wounded parts and how the territory shifts from day to day.

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    Access tool Emotional Regulation for Neurodivergent Brains A tornado map of fast, intense feelings, with five ways towards the still point, a gentle repair checklist and a toolkit you can fill in and copy. Open the tool →
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